“It’s Not My Problem” is the Root of the Problem

If we aren’t willing to find a solution to the problems that surround us, then we effectively are a part of the problem

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As a New Yorker, the motto “If you see something, say something” is one that’s well-known and highly recognized regardless of what borough you live in. It promotes the idea of having unbiased community protection — like you’re a part of larger-scale neighborhood watch. A form of city-wide vigilance one could say.

But, do you ever ask yourself how often that motto is actually exercised by the average New Yorker?

I asked myself the question recently, “what have I personally done to stand up for someone in need?” and when I tried to think of an answer, I drew a blank. Because to be completely honest, I tend to keep my head down most of the time. Which I know is really horrible to admit, but it’s true.

Whenever I’m going anywhere, I always look straight ahead when I’m walking around or riding on the subway, just trying to make sure that I never make eye contact with a stranger. I do whatever I can to avoid confrontation or engage in drama for the fear and defense of my own safety.

And with the increasing racial divide and political tension that’s been bubbling up…