Great points that you have made, but I don’t necessarily fully agree that everyone should have done all of these things by 30. I’m also right around the corner from 30 and honestly, I also feel that there are things I want to accomplish by then, but I won’t beat myself up for not having done them.
I think everyone goes at their own speed in life and not everyone accomplishes things at the same age. Too many inspiring figures to name to give as examples— J.K Rowling, Julia Child, Vera Wang — but I think it’s safe to say that it’s not over til it’s over :)